Ageing

Entries about ageing

The Move to Emsworth
Memory · August 2004
Margaret and Alan move from their Havant house to a smaller bungalow in Emsworth as their children become more independent.
Dad’s Last Week
Memory · 19 February 2008
Margaret records the final week of her father’s life after a severe stroke and the practical decisions that followed his death.
Ruby Makes Me a Grandmother
Memory · June 2012
Margaret meets her first grandchild and discovers that Claire has her own clear instructions for handling a newborn.
The Knees
Memory · 2013
Margaret’s knee pain is diagnosed as mild osteoarthritis, leading to exercises, practical adjustments and selective acceptance of help.
Mum and the Bus Pass
Memory · 2014
Joan continues using buses on her own terms while Margaret notices the practical adjustments her mother refuses to call help.
Mum’s Last Week
Memory · 3 October 2016
Margaret records the week between Joan’s severe stroke and her death, including the hospital visits and practical questions shared with Peter.
Pauline Retires
Memory · 1 September 2018
Pauline’s retirement prompts Margaret to consider her own working life while their friendship begins moving beyond school-office conversations.
The Cataract
Memory · 15 May 2019
Margaret has a cataract removed from her right eye and approaches the recovery instructions as another process to check.
Reduced Hours
Memory · 4 January 2022
Margaret agrees a reduced three-day working pattern at Millbrook following Alan’s death.
My Last School Term
Diary Entry · 31 July 2023
Margaret completes her final day at Millbrook, hands over fourteen pages of notes and leaves the office without moving a changed tray.
Tuesday Collection
Diary Entry · 3 March 2026
Margaret collects Poppy from school, hears her read and explains a childhood without tablets, mobile phones or paused television.
Emsworth Now
Memory · 21 June 2026
Margaret records her present routine in Emsworth, including family visits, gardening, local history and continued work on the Life Archive.