Change

Entries about change

The Friday I Arrived
Memory · 14 September 1962
Margaret records the family accounts of her birth at St Mary’s Hospital and the different details each relative remembered.
The New House in Portchester
Memory · August 1969
Margaret remembers moving from Copnor to a three-bedroom council house in Portchester before starting junior school.
My First Day at Castle Lane
Memory · September 1969
Margaret starts at Castle Lane Junior School and relies on Denise while she learns the unfamiliar routines.
Decimal Day in the Kitchen
Memory · 15 February 1971
Margaret remembers Decimal Day through the conversion card on the kitchen table and her family’s different responses to the new money.
The Last Day at School
Diary Entry · 20 July 1979
A reconstructed diary entry about Margaret’s final day at secondary school and the uncertain gap before her first job begins.
Evening Classes
Memory · 8 September 1980
Margaret begins evening classes in typing and office practice, taking the first formal step towards improving her clerical skills.
Alan at the Civic Hall
Memory · 17 October 1980
Margaret meets Alan at a social evening in Fareham, where careful dancing leads to a telephone call and a first date.
Twelve May
Memory · 12 May 1984
Margaret and Alan marry at Fareham Register Office and begin married life in a flat still filled with boxes.
Claire Arrives
Memory · 28 March 1986
Claire is born in Portsmouth, and Margaret and Alan begin adjusting their Fareham flat and daily routines around their first child.
The Havant House
Memory · Around May 1987
Margaret and Alan leave the Fareham flat for a three-bedroom house in Havant, taking on a mortgage and room to expand.
Michael Arrives
Memory · 11 July 1989
Michael is born in Portsmouth, and Margaret adjusts to caring for a second child alongside three-year-old Claire.
Back to Work
Memory · 1 September 1992
Margaret returns to paid employment as a part-time clerical assistant at Eastbrook Junior School.
Our First Flight
Memory · August 1994
The family takes its first overseas holiday, flying from Gatwick to Majorca for a week in a modest apartment.
A School Secretary
Memory · 2 September 1996
Margaret becomes Eastbrook’s school secretary and takes responsibility for the records, money and correspondence that keep the office running.
The Move to Emsworth
Memory · August 2004
Margaret and Alan move from their Havant house to a smaller bungalow in Emsworth as their children become more independent.
A Different School Office
Memory · 1 September 2004
Margaret begins work as senior administrator at Millbrook and adjusts to networked computers, email and unfamiliar office systems.
Denise Again
Memory · May 2009
A chance meeting in Fareham brings Margaret and Denise back into contact after eighteen years.
Claire’s Wedding
Memory · 9 September 2010
Claire marries Simon after organising the day with the same attention she gives to most family arrangements.
Ruby Makes Me a Grandmother
Memory · June 2012
Margaret meets her first grandchild and discovers that Claire has her own clear instructions for handling a newborn.
A Phone That Did Too Much
Memory · 2013
Margaret’s first smartphone proves useful, irritating and capable of turning a reply into an accidental telephone call.