Alan Carter

Memories involving Alan Carter

Alan at the Civic Hall
Memory · 17 October 1980
Margaret meets Alan at a social evening in Fareham, where careful dancing leads to a telephone call and a first date.
The Chevette
Memory · 1983
Margaret and Alan buy a used red Chevette after George inspects it and offers the nearest thing he gives to approval.
Twelve May
Memory · 12 May 1984
Margaret and Alan marry at Fareham Register Office and begin married life in a flat still filled with boxes.
Shanklin for Four Nights
Memory · 14 May 1984
Two days after their wedding, Margaret and Alan take the Chevette and ferry to Shanklin for a four-night honeymoon.
The Fareham Flat
Memory · Around June 1984
Margaret and Alan settle into their first married home, a compact Fareham flat with second-hand furniture and a coin-operated laundry.
Claire Arrives
Memory · 28 March 1986
Claire is born in Portsmouth, and Margaret and Alan begin adjusting their Fareham flat and daily routines around their first child.
The Havant House
Memory · Around May 1987
Margaret and Alan leave the Fareham flat for a three-bedroom house in Havant, taking on a mortgage and room to expand.
Michael Arrives
Memory · 11 July 1989
Michael is born in Portsmouth, and Margaret adjusts to caring for a second child alongside three-year-old Claire.
Back to Work
Memory · 1 September 1992
Margaret returns to paid employment as a part-time clerical assistant at Eastbrook Junior School.
The New Forest Tent
Memory · August 1993
A low-cost family camping holiday in the New Forest begins with a borrowed frame tent and competing ideas about how to put it up.
Our First Flight
Memory · August 1994
The family takes its first overseas holiday, flying from Gatwick to Majorca for a week in a modest apartment.
Mabel Comes Home
Memory · 1995
A visit to see a litter of kittens ends with the family bringing home a tabby named Mabel.
The Gallbladder Year
Memory · 1998
Margaret’s recurring pain is diagnosed as gallstones, leading to surgery and an unwanted demonstration that home and work can continue without her.
The Computer in the Dining Room
Memory · Christmas 1998
The family’s first home computer takes over one end of the dining room and creates new uses, instructions and arguments about whose turn it is.
Weymouth Again
Memory · August 1999
Margaret returns to Weymouth with Alan, Claire and Michael and tries unsuccessfully to identify the boarding house from her childhood holiday.
The Move to Emsworth
Memory · August 2004
Margaret and Alan move from their Havant house to a smaller bungalow in Emsworth as their children become more independent.
Dad’s Last Week
Memory · 19 February 2008
Margaret records the final week of her father’s life after a severe stroke and the practical decisions that followed his death.
Denise Again
Memory · May 2009
A chance meeting in Fareham brings Margaret and Denise back into contact after eighteen years.
Claire’s Wedding
Memory · 9 September 2010
Claire marries Simon after organising the day with the same attention she gives to most family arrangements.
Ruby Makes Me a Grandmother
Memory · June 2012
Margaret meets her first grandchild and discovers that Claire has her own clear instructions for handling a newborn.